Dropping the push, the hustle & the striving

If you, like me fell into the belief that you have to PUSH and ‘MAKE IT HAPPEN’ in life & work, then you’ll want to keep reading….

REAL TALK HERE

Push energy – ​ constantly striving & hustling is a toxic belief system that we’ve been conditioned into. And it has us running around like headless chickens, working crazy hours, having no boundaries, trying to be validated and feel worthy…..​​𝙔𝙐𝙆​​

And it never stops​​ UNLESS we make the conscious choice to intercept this belief and subsequent behaviour​​

𝑨𝒏𝒅 𝒕𝒉𝒊𝒔 𝒊𝒔 𝒐𝒏𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒃𝒊𝒈𝒈𝒆𝒔𝒕 𝒄𝒂𝒖𝒔𝒆𝒔 𝒐𝒇 𝒃𝒖𝒓𝒏𝒐𝒖𝒕, 𝒆𝒙𝒉𝒂𝒖𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒖𝒏𝒇𝒖𝒍𝒇𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒆𝒅 𝒃𝒖𝒔𝒚𝒏𝒆𝒔𝒔​​

The opposite of this is ‘pull’ energy: ​

💚 magnetism​

💚 flow​

💚 intention​

💚 purpose​

💚 inspiration​

💚 allowing​​

Now this doesn’t mean, sit around and do nothing and wait for amazing things to show up…….​​As much as that can sound nice! (Thanks….’The Secret’ book)

𝗥𝗮𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿, 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗽𝘂𝗹𝗹 & 𝗺𝗮𝗴𝗻𝗲𝘁𝗶𝘀𝗺 𝗲𝗻𝗲𝗿𝗴𝘆 𝗶𝘀 𝗮 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗼𝗳 ‘𝗯𝗲𝗶𝗻𝗴’ 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝗰𝘂𝗹𝘁𝗶𝘃𝗮𝘁𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝗮 𝗺𝗶𝘅𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝗳 𝗱𝗲𝗲𝗽 𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗽𝗮𝘀𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻, 𝗻𝗲𝗿𝘃𝗼𝘂𝘀 𝘀𝘆𝘀𝘁𝗲𝗺 𝗿𝗲𝗴𝘂𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻, 𝗶𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗿 𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗴𝗻𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁, 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗰𝘁𝘂𝗿𝗲 & 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻​​

The pushing energy of striving & hustling is a toxic masculine energy, that can result in stress & burnout, panic, and at times aggression and defensiveness

​​It comes from fear. It comes from feeling not good enough & needing to ‘prove’ our worthiness.

​​And it’s rife in society. Pushing and striving is often what’s been praised and rewarded, particularly in the business world

On the other hand, the attraction & magnetism energy of receiving, allowing, flow, trust, intuition, inspiration, creativity is the healthy feminine

𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗦𝗪𝗘𝗘𝗧 𝗦𝗣𝗢𝗧​

When you combine the healthy feminine with the healthy masculine energy of structure, intention & purpose, you’re well on your way to living and working with more calm, more enthusiasm, fulfilment and overall success​​

To start to create your life with this healthy and resourceful alignment, is a mix of self awareness AND making little adjustments consistently over time

​​𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁’𝘀 𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗿𝘁 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗹𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗽 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗲𝘁 𝗴𝗼 𝗼𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝘂𝘀𝗵, 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝗮𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗵𝘂𝘀𝘁𝗹𝗲?​​

Small steps lead to big change……

WANT MORE? Check out my video on this topic in my Conscious Creators FB Group